120 Would You Rather Questions for Couples (Funny, Romantic, Deep and More)

“Would you rather” questions are the perfect couple game: no cards, no setup, and every answer tells you something new about the person you love. Here are 120 would you rather questions for couples, from silly to surprisingly deep, plus a few ways to play.

How to play would you rather as a couple

1. Classic: take turns asking. Both of you answer, then explain why.
2. Guess mode: before your partner answers, guess what they will pick. One point per correct guess, first to ten wins.
3. Same time: count to three and say your answer together. Matches earn a high five, mismatches earn a debate.
4. By text: send one question a day and answer with a single emoji first, the explanation later.

Funny would you rather questions (18)

1. Would you rather always have to sing instead of speak, or dance everywhere you walk?
2. Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button for your life?
3. Would you rather have hiccups for a whole day or sneeze every ten minutes for a week?
4. Would you rather only whisper or only shout for a month?
5. Would you rather have a pet dragon the size of a cat or a cat the size of a dragon?
6. Would you rather wear socks with sandals forever or a tuxedo to the beach forever?
7. Would you rather have my laugh or my sneeze?
8. Would you rather know every song lyric or every movie quote?
9. Would you rather be stuck in an elevator with your ex or with your boss?
10. Would you rather live without the internet or without air conditioning?
11. Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal driver?
12. Would you rather have a talking dog or a flying car?
13. Would you rather be famous for something silly or unknown for something great?
14. Would you rather never be cold again or never be hot again?
15. Would you rather swap lives with me for a day or with a celebrity for a week?
16. Would you rather have hair you cannot cut or nails you cannot cut?
17. Would you rather always lose at board games or always lose at video games?
18. Would you rather always smell like garlic or like wet dog?

Romantic would you rather questions (18)

1. Would you rather get a love letter or a love song?
2. Would you rather have a fancy dinner out or a candlelit dinner at home?
3. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or under the stars?
4. Would you rather relive our first date or our first kiss?
5. Would you rather wake up to breakfast in bed or a surprise day trip?
6. Would you rather receive flowers every week or one big surprise a year?
7. Would you rather watch the sunrise or the sunset together?
8. Would you rather renew our vows on a beach or in a tiny chapel?
9. Would you rather have a picnic in the park or a cozy night by the fire?
10. Would you rather hear “I love you” every morning or find a note every night?
11. Would you rather keep every photo of us or every message we ever sent?
12. Would you rather have a song that is ours or a place that is ours?
13. Would you rather be surprised on your birthday or plan it together?
14. Would you rather cuddle on the sofa or hold hands on a long walk?
15. Would you rather go back to the day we met or see us in twenty years?
16. Would you rather get a surprise visit or a surprise gift?
17. Would you rather write our love story or read it written by me?
18. Would you rather spend Valentine’s Day out or in pajamas at home?

Travel would you rather questions (17)

1. Would you rather go on a road trip or take a long train journey?
2. Would you rather explore a big city or a tiny island?
3. Would you rather go camping or stay in a five-star hotel?
4. Would you rather see the Northern Lights or swim with dolphins?
5. Would you rather plan everything or book a flight and improvise?
6. Would you rather have a weekend in Paris or a week in a mountain cabin?
7. Would you rather visit every country once or one country every year for life?
8. Would you rather travel only by plane or only by boat?
9. Would you rather go on safari or go skiing?
10. Would you rather backpack across Asia or drive across America?
11. Would you rather travel in summer heat or winter snow?
12. Would you rather have a beach holiday or a city break?
13. Would you rather visit ancient ruins or modern skyscrapers?
14. Would you rather spend a month in Italy or a month in Japan?
15. Would you rather stay in a treehouse or an igloo?
16. Would you rather travel with friends or just the two of us?
17. Would you rather have unlimited flights or a free house anywhere?

Food would you rather questions (17)

1. Would you rather eat pizza or tacos for the rest of your life?
2. Would you rather give up sweets or give up cheese?
3. Would you rather cook together every night or order in every night?
4. Would you rather have breakfast for dinner or dinner for breakfast?
5. Would you rather only eat spicy food or only eat bland food?
6. Would you rather never drink coffee again or never drink tea again?
7. Would you rather have ice cream or chocolate on a hot day?
8. Would you rather eat at a street food market or a fine-dining restaurant?
9. Would you rather bake a cake together or make fresh pasta together?
10. Would you rather have a lifetime of free sushi or free burgers?
11. Would you rather try a new food every week or eat your favorite meal every day?
12. Would you rather have popcorn or candy at the movies?
13. Would you rather do the cooking or the dishes forever?
14. Would you rather eat only sweet food or only salty food?
15. Would you rather have brunch every Sunday or a midnight snack every night?
16. Would you rather give up bread or give up pasta?
17. Would you rather share dessert or have your own?

Deep would you rather questions (17)

1. Would you rather know the date of your death or the cause?
2. Would you rather be loved or be respected?
3. Would you rather have more time or more money?
4. Would you rather forget your past or never know your future?
5. Would you rather always tell the truth or never be lied to?
6. Would you rather live a short exciting life or a long quiet one?
7. Would you rather have a few close friends or many good friends?
8. Would you rather change one thing about the past or know one thing about the future?
9. Would you rather be able to forgive anything or forget anything?
10. Would you rather have a job you love with a small salary or a job you dislike with a big one?
11. Would you rather live close to family or far away somewhere new?
12. Would you rather be the one who loves more or the one who is loved more?
13. Would you rather have a big wedding or a small, intimate one?
14. Would you rather fight and make up or never fight at all?
15. Would you rather lose all your photos or all your memories of one year?
16. Would you rather know what everyone thinks of you or never know?
17. Would you rather grow old in the city or in the countryside?

Flirty but sweet would you rather questions (17)

1. Would you rather get a kiss on the forehead or on the cheek?
2. Would you rather I wear your hoodie or your favorite shirt?
3. Would you rather get a good-morning kiss or a good-night kiss?
4. Would you rather I call you by your name or by a nickname?
5. Would you rather hold hands in public or cuddle in private?
6. Would you rather dress up for a date or stay in sweatpants together?
7. Would you rather I compliment your smile or your eyes?
8. Would you rather get a love note in your pocket or in your bag?
9. Would you rather dance together at a wedding or at home with the lights off?
10. Would you rather I surprise you at work or at home?
11. Would you rather we kiss in the rain or in the snow?
12. Would you rather get a long hug or a quick kiss when I come home?
13. Would you rather I write you a poem or cook you dinner?
14. Would you rather share an umbrella or share a blanket?
15. Would you rather have a first date all over again or a hundredth date?
16. Would you rather I send you a selfie or a voice message?
17. Would you rather be my plus-one at a party or my only guest at a dinner for two?

Long distance would you rather questions (16)

1. Would you rather have a video call every night or a long visit every two months?
2. Would you rather get a surprise letter or a surprise package?
3. Would you rather watch a movie together online or play a game together online?
4. Would you rather text all day or call once at night?
5. Would you rather I visit you or you visit me next?
6. Would you rather plan our next trip or plan our reunion day?
7. Would you rather get a voice note in the morning or at night?
8. Would you rather have a shared playlist or a shared photo album?
9. Would you rather count down the days or be surprised by the date?
10. Would you rather cook the same recipe over video or eat at the same time in two cities?
11. Would you rather meet halfway or in one of our cities?
12. Would you rather send flowers or have flowers sent to you?
13. Would you rather get one long letter or many short notes?
14. Would you rather share our location or share a daily photo?
15. Would you rather fall asleep on a call or wake up to a message?
16. Would you rather close the distance in one year with a plan or in six months with a surprise?

Long distance? Pair the game with “open when” letters or a few love coupons for the next visit, so every answer ends with something to look forward to.

More games and questions for couples

When you run out of options, switch to open questions: questions to ask your boyfriend, questions to ask your girlfriend or a couple quiz to test how well you know each other.