Monthsary messages: 50 sweet things to write for your girlfriend or boyfriend
By The LoveStorySpace Team · Updated · 6 min read
Quick answer
A good monthsary message is short and specific: name the month, mention one thing that happened in it and say what you're looking forward to. Below are 50 lines for your girlfriend or boyfriend, sweet, funny and deep, plus messages for the 1st, 6th and 11th monthsary.
Key takeaways
- Name the month and add one real detail from it: that's what makes a message feel personal.
- Keep it short: two or three lines are enough for a monthsary.
- Change the tone month to month: sweet, funny, deep.
Every month together deserves a few words. Copy any of these monthsary messages and replace the parts in [brackets] with your own details: a place, a date, a joke only the two of you get.
Sweet monthsary messages for your girlfriend
- “Happy monthsary, love. Another month of you being the best part of my day.”
- “[Seven] months, and you still give me butterflies when you text first.”
- “This month I fell for you again when [you laughed at your own joke for five minutes].”
- “Thank you for every [good morning text] this month. I keep all of them.”
- “If I could pick any month to relive, it would be one with you in it.”
- “Happy monthsary to the girl who makes ordinary days feel like dates.”
- “One more month of holding your hand. Still not enough.”
- “You're my favorite notification. Happy [3rd] monthsary.”
Sweet monthsary messages for your boyfriend
- “Happy monthsary to the guy who [always saves me the last bite].”
- “[Five] months of you, and you're still my safe place.”
- “This month I loved [how you sang badly in the car just to make me laugh].”
- “Thank you for choosing me again this month. I choose you too.”
- “Happy monthsary, love. Same time next month? And every month after?”
- “You make the boring parts of life feel like the best parts.”
Funny monthsary messages
- “Happy monthsary! Another month of you stealing my fries and me letting you.”
- “[Four] months and you still haven't seen me ugly-cry at a movie. Yet.”
- “Congrats on surviving another month with me. Your prize: more of me.”
- “Happy monthsary to my favorite person to argue with about where to eat.”
Messages for milestone monthsaries
| Monthsary | Message |
|---|---|
| 1st | “One month ago you said yes. Best month of my year, and it's only the first.” |
| 3rd | “Three months of firsts with you. I can't wait for the hundred that come next.” |
| 6th | “Half a year of us. Six months, [183] days, and I'd choose every single one again.” |
| 11th | “Eleven months down, one to go before our first anniversary. Counting every day.” |
Deep monthsary messages
- “This month wasn't easy, but you made it lighter. Thank you for staying.”
- “I didn't know love could feel this calm until you.”
- “Every month with you teaches me a new way to be loved.”
- “I'm proud of us. Of how we talk, how we fix things, how we keep choosing each other.”
Frequently asked questions
What should I write on our monthsary?
Name the month, mention one thing that happened in it and say what you're looking forward to. Two or three lines are enough.
How do you greet someone on their monthsary?
“Happy monthsary, love” or “Happy [6th] monthsary”, followed by one personal line about this month together.
What should I write for our 6th monthsary?
Mark the half year: count the days (about 183), name your favorite memory from the six months and say what you want to do before your first anniversary.
Is it okay to send a monthsary message by text?
Yes. Many couples send it first thing in the morning on the date. To make it special, send a link to a page with your photos and the message.
Can I make a page for our monthsary?
Yes. LoveStorySpace lets you put your message, photos and a days-together counter on one page and send it as a link or QR code. Free to create; publishing takes Love+, $4.99/month.
Make your page in 5 minutes
Create it for free, publish it with Love+ for €4.99/month. Cancel anytime.